Obsession is a crazy thing whether it is with a human being or a habit or with a person himself .It preoccupy or fill the mind of (someone) continually and to a troubling extent.People with obsession never likes things happening opposite to what they really want and often develop possessive behavior about their habits .They usually get mad when people use their favourite belongings or speak of topics for which they develops strong repulsive behavior . You primarily have heard people gossiping about others telling “oh yes,that guy is so self obsessed about himself” .Question here is what makes that guy they are talking about different from them .Probably , He must be curious about his looks or his body or his reputation in front of others or probably must have overreacted in front of others when people have talked about topics he is curious about.
Obsession is having or showing excessive or compulsive concern about something,a state in which someone thinks about someone or something constantly or frequently especially in a way that is not normal.It is not that obsession is a rare thing.Everyone feel obsessed with something(s) at some place or time.Obsession should not be confused with addiction because addiction at a point might be good but Obsession is “extreme addiction” and is real bad because it starts affecting a person’s behavior .
In ‘love’ terms, Obsession is when you are trying to control someone that you think you are in love with or related to.You get them or try to get them what you want them to do.You overreact when he or she hangout with others or spend too time with people who can be potentially dangerous for the relation between you and the person you are in love with.A feeling of insecurity develops which you cant stop expressing too much.
Being Humans,we should always maintain distance from the source of our obsession.Never should we think much of obsessive thoughts.A free mind is always good.Maturity is the best cure for obsession .